The song addresses the confusion and uncertainty that often comes with being a woman and how difficult it can be to understand one's own feelings and thoughts.
Charli reflects on the complexity of being a woman and the challenges in relationships, especially in terms of self-doubt, insecurities, and the search for identity and acceptance.
The lyrics express the confusion and lack of clarity that Charli feels when it comes to understanding her identity and emotions as a woman, as well as the difficulty of recognizing the true intentions of others.
It also touches on the insecurity in interpersonal relationships, showing how relationships with other people, especially women, can be complicated and confusing.
Charli XCX expresses the confusion and uncertainty in a compassionate and honest way, inviting listeners to reflect on similar topics and engage with them.